Small, seemingly, innocent touches can be a sexy and fun way to drive a guy wild.
Why is that? Experts explain that subtle things – ones that are just enough to get his imagination going – are often what arouse men the most.
If you shake his hand, wrap your other hand around his. Linger for just a couple of seconds longer than you normally would while you gaze in his eyes.
Touch a hunk’s shoulder or neck and tell him
muscles are tight where you are touching him. Then softly ask him if he could give you a massage where it ‘hurts.’ He’ll be very happy to oblige with this opportunity to touch you back.
This subtle flirt is extremely successful for my girlfriends and myself. Make sure you wear a top that clings to your body and exposes your sexy neck.
During conversation, just as a natural part of your gestures, touch his knee, his forearm or hand for emphasis for a second or two.
When I touch a guy like this, usually by the second or third time, his body language changes… he draws closer to me and his pupils dilate. I know that he’s really into me now.
Instead of asking what time it is, lightly slip your fingers around a hottie’s wrist and check the time yourself on his watch.
One time I did this to a hot guy at a coffeehouse on the way to a class. After I looked at the time on his watch, I looked up and gazed into his eyes and told him with a breathy voice, “Oh it’s 3:30 already.” Then I added, “I need to get to my yoga class pretty soon. I love to keep firm and flexible.” Then I gave him a wicked little smile. He gave me a sexy grin back and asked for my number.
Straighten his collar or smooth out his shirt sleeve. But don’t do it like his mother would. Instead, do it in a sexy way. Let your fingers linger a little longer on his neck as you straighten his collar… or caress his arm as you smooth out his shirt sleeve.
Ask him if it’s hot in the room and put his hands on your cheeks or neck for a temperature check. This sexy gesture will get his temperature to rise for sure!
Find a reason to give a hunk a big hug, like announcing that you just won $2 bucks from a lottery ticket, and when you pull away, lightly run your hands over his shoulders and down his arms while you look him in the eye with a subtle wicked grin on your face.
Set yourself apart from a crowd at a party and sit on a countertop or tabletop. If you’re feeling extra bold, use his shoulders to steady yourself for the boost up. If you can work a subtle caress of his neck into the smooth move… do it! You’ll be closer to his eye level, and he can scope out your assets.
Get near him in a crowded room and, as you pass by, touch his lower back, rest your hand on his forearm or steady yourself on his biceps.
Be sure to give him a sexy gaze as you do this. You should even tell him, “Wow, your arms are so firm,” or “You’re so muscular. You must workout.”
Brush your body against his as you “squeeze” to get past him in a crowded room.
My girlfriend used this method on a really cute guy she had just started to date
They were at a crowded bar on a date and when she got up to go to the bathroom she, sort of on impulse, brushed her breasts against his back as she squeezed past him. Nobody else saw her sexy gesture, but he definitely felt it, she said.
When she turned to look at him when she got all the way across the room, he was still staring at her. “As soon as I got back to the bar, he put his hand on my thigh, and within half an hour, he was practically begging me to leave with him,” she told me.
Using a subtle, sexy, touch and few other hot ways to flirt with guys is such wicked fun and gives you control over a guy without him knowing.