Guys do not realise that if they spend a lot of time in breast foreplay stimulation, their woman can have a breast orgasm. Most men and women use some form of breast massage in foreplay and pleasure. Breast massage is used to firm the breasts and to check for any health issues, it can also be used for sexual arousal. Many men forget to pay much attention to the breast in sex.
Breast massages orgasms, while common for some woman, have not received attention in books or magazines. Studies have shown that female breast massage will increase the change of a woman having an orgasm.
The breast is the positive pole of woman’s sexuality. The positive pole of a man is his penis. The key in foreplay is to stimulate the positive pole of a woman so her heart opens. Then she will be open for her negative pole, which is her vulva, to get wet.
Men rush to the vulva without spending enough time for a woman to get really aroused. Studies show that this takes 20 minutes. Women have erectile tissue around the vulva that fills with blood. This takes at least 20 minutes.
Most men make love in less than 15 minutes. This means that their lover never gets fully aroused EVER! Men then wonder why their partner turns off sex after a year or so. Then the man discovers that she is having an affair with a man who really takes his time.
Adding breast massage is a wonderful way to turn on a woman. I suggest not starting with this area. Start on the less hot zones of your lover’s body, like kissing and stroking her all over. The neck is a highly erotic area for most women. Kissing the fingers and toes is one area that most men miss.
One way to start the massage is to just place your palm on her heart area. Just hold and let the heat of your hand stimulate your lover.
When a woman does not have a lover she can do a breast massage orgasm in the privacy of her own home. One can start by first gently pressing your breast from inner nipple to the outer side. The pressure must not be fast or hard. Be very sensual and gentle. Touch yourself for pleasure with slow and gentle strokes.
One stroke that I love to do is a lifting action. I hold the breast in one hand and gently lift the breast. Sometimes I do this stroke for 5 minutes. Look into your lover’s eyes as you do this stroke. See if you can connect the heart energy through he eyes. Next try kneading the breast. Then, for greatest pleasure, rub the breasts with the palm of your hand in a clockwise and anti clockwise pattern.
The use of massage oil can take the massage up to a new level of sensuality and pleasure. Make sure you have warm massage oil.
A sensitive woman can have a breast massage orgasm in about 15 to 20 minutes of breast stimulation. Once she has had an orgasm, she will really want you to penetrate her. Make sure you do not come too fast. Many women can come again and again. Most men stop much too soon. Really make intercourse last for 30 minutes or even hours. You will find that if you do this, your lover will want a lot more sex each week, sometimes much more than you can handle.